Relationships are complicated, but they don’t have to be that way.  They do not have to involve so much struggle, conflict or disappointment; they can grow into fulfilling partnerships. They require a different kind of vigilance and a full understanding of how they work.  I help you to identify where you and you and your partner’s danger zones are of you and equip you with skills to overcome them.  Instead of utilizing a theory of what might work with couples, we use research-based proven methods with all of our couples.  We know what couples that make it do differently and what actions erode the very foundation of a relationship.  Our approach goes beyond just learning to communicate and fight fair.  We help you increase satisfaction, heal from past hurts and create the relationship that you want.